Who you are is up to you. Never, never give them the power to define you.
During one of the girls' night out, one of the cousin said 'Repel love because you surround yourself with single friends who are comfortable with their status. You should surround yourself with married people and have a be "available" attitude.'
Would you?
I don't think so. Being single doesn't mean that you know nothing about love. It's about being content and, hopefully, that takes you on the right path. Sometimes, I see more pain and misery from women who think they should be in a relationship, because of the pressure they put on themselves and of what others say.
Do not get me wrong. I am surrounded with happy people, I love weddings and I am friends with people who were in and out of a relationship. But I also love being with my single friends, most of them the happiest. I guess no matter who you are friends with, happiness comes within. You don't need anybody to complete you because you most definitely are not a half of a person. I believe that the right person will come along eventually and will take your hand gently, without pulling it.
We, (single friends) are probably using our single time wisely, exploring new aspects of life, working on our own goala and working on ourselves not because that will make us more attractive, but because we love ourselves.
But until the right one comes along, I am happy and will continue to be the happiest regardless if I am single or in a complicated relationship. 😁😄
